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    mudra

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    A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  mudra on Fri Jun 17, 2011 8:06 pm




    Carol is accompanying her mother through the last stages of her life on our Earth.
    I am opening this thread so that we can all gather here and share with them our wishes and prayers , our Love and our peace during these important times.


    Taking care of a dying person can be the saddest yet most serene and honest time of our lives.
    We summon from the depths of our being the very best to support our loved one's crucial journey into the unknown world.
    At the side of a dying person the truth of life, its fragility, is naked before us.
    As life's structures are collapsing one by one we arrive to that point where we share the essential ,
    that space in our Heart where we are One with the other being .
    As we re-member , we know this precious bond, we will carry into eternity.


    Dear Carol , may your mother find peace as she leaves this world and may she be reborn into a Blissfull one .


    Love for You both

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    I am of the nature to have ill-health.
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    I am of the nature to die.
    There is no way to escape death.

    All that is dear to me and everyone I love
    are of the nature to change.

    There is no way to escape being separated from them.
    My actions are my only true belongings.

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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  THEeXchanger on Fri Jun 17, 2011 8:18 pm

    Carol, you and, your mother
    are in my thoughts/and, prayers at this time

    (i too, have been going thru this, with my mom/and, my dad)

    Mudra, hit a lot of nails on the head, with her comments

    thank you

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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  Carol on Fri Jun 17, 2011 8:35 pm

    Thank you both. I'm sitting in the hospital beside my mother's bedside when I saw this and started to cry. Your kindness is much appreciated and really touched me deep in my heart. JT


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    With deepest respect ~ Aloha & Mahalo, Carol
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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  HigherLove on Fri Jun 17, 2011 9:36 pm




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    You have my heart

    Post  Heartsong on Fri Jun 17, 2011 11:10 pm

    You have my heart and my prayers. You face what I will face in the coming years. May you find grace amidst the pain. May your Mother pass in peace.
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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  Carol on Fri Jun 17, 2011 11:48 pm

    Thank you Higher Love and Heartsong for your kind words. We don't know how long this will take but the pain and suffering she has undergone and in undergoing is very difficult to witness. When I read mudra's sweet message it all finally hit me emotionally so I'm having a bit of a hard time with it all. How does one say good-by to Mt. Shasta or one's mother. I'm just not ready.


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    With deepest respect ~ Aloha & Mahalo, Carol
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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  malletzky on Sat Jun 18, 2011 2:53 am

    This is for you and your mother Carol, the bellow is something I wrote after my aunt and my uncle passed away last year. Both of them have had a realy fulfilled life (they were both nearly 80 years old) and shared their love unconditionally. Both of them were very loving persons and I remember my cousins taking care of them, just as you do now with your mother.


    Some time ago...it was only memories, pictures, recalls...which tends to fade away, as the human mind tends to forget. And today, now...luckily, there remind very strong emotions in our hearts connected with almost all moments of our human life, here on this lovely planet. Love...love is the strongest emotion that we're blessed to be able to feel. Therefore, the love that we felt and feel towards each other will remain engraved in our souls and our spirits. As our soul and our spirit live eternal...the love will also remain there engraved for the eternity. I love you both, forever and in all eternity...and thanks for being there, when I needed you.


    Much respect to you
    Mall...
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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  infiniteblue on Sat Jun 18, 2011 4:50 am

    Hi Carol,

    No words.....just this....

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    LOVE ALLways, c

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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  mudra on Sat Jun 18, 2011 5:05 pm

    Carol wrote:How does one say good-by to Mt. Shasta or one's mother. I'm just not ready.

    I will share with you how it worked out for me when I was facing a very similar situation and hope this may help you find your own insight in these times.

    My mother was dying with cancer when I was 23 . I did'nt know if I had to put a vision there that she would stay longer with us or if I should just accept to let her go . I did'nt quite know what was right .It was'nt clear to me how I should direct my thoughts . I shared my concerns with a friend I considered advanced in these matters. She told me , look your mother as a soul has already decided to leave . What she is waiting is that you accept this so she can go in peace.
    So that particular day I sat with her and thanked her for all she had done for me . I also told her that she was more than this body , that it was ok to leave this vehicle now as it was causing her great suffering and not functioning properly anylonger. I said she would be free to go wherever she wanted . She wondered if she would have to meet people again that caused her pain in this life . I answered no , you can choose that next time you won't meet them and will have a lovely life of freedom and enjoyment . If you could have such a life what would you fill it with ? She began to share her new dreams and visions and I acknowlegded all of them . I told her I will always love her and then kissed her good bye . Two days later she left this plane with a peacefull smile on her face . I believe, as she was sleeping that she remembered our conversation and followed her dreams.

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    Love for You dear Carol

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    Re: A Love Boost For Carol And Her Mother...

    Post  Jenetta on Sat Jun 18, 2011 5:44 pm

    Now I know what to say when my Mother passes Mudra...she almost passed between 2007-2010 (very sick that whole time) yet she decided to stay on a little while longer to present another whole new aspect of herself (in her eighties)...Carol the emotional pain for you and family is tremendous and wish you and your Mother peace and love.
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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  orthodoxymoron on Sat Jun 18, 2011 6:17 pm

    Regardless of all of the esoteric and futuristic conceptualizing we free-spirits do - we still have to face current realities - and the reality is that there is a lot of pain and suffering. I wish you the best, Carol. I wish I could just fix everything, but I can't.
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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  Brook on Sun Jun 19, 2011 1:22 pm

    Within the human experience it's so easy to get tripped up within this condition. Look around you to understand that. Death, War, poverty
    famine....it's hard to overcome this human experience in that those negative energies will simply suck you in.

    With that in mind..the human frailties will over come in times such as this....I know this all too well.

    To you Carol and your mother I send blessings



    May you and your mother find peace a serenity within this human condition


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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  Carol on Tue Jul 12, 2011 1:43 am

    Candle in the Wind The Karen Candle in the Wind
    Good-bye mom
    I will always love you.
    May you spread your wings and fly.
    12/6/23 - 7/11/11


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    With deepest respect ~ Aloha & Mahalo, Carol
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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  Brook on Tue Jul 12, 2011 9:43 am



    Our hearts and prayers are with you Carol

    With heartfelt condolences








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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  milkteagirl on Tue Jul 12, 2011 10:15 am

    a big bear hug for you, Carol ..



    I am very sorry for your loss
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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  mudra on Tue Jul 12, 2011 11:22 am





    My Heart and thoughts are with you dear Carol .
    You accompanied your mother to the very end
    with Love and attention,with care and affection .
    In the Heavens a free soul is born .
    Life in the Spirit is eternal.
    Love and beauty connects us in all dimensions.


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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  Micjer on Tue Jul 12, 2011 11:24 am

    My condolences Carol.

    I recently lost my father and I can relate to what you have gone through. Knowing they are in a better place is nice but it is difficult to let them go.





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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  giovonni on Tue Jul 12, 2011 11:31 am

    Dear Carol,
    I recall now - that it has now been over a year that you and the family have been going through this most difficult and trying process with your dear Mother.
    But she was surely blessed to have you as a loving and caring daughter. You have shown us all here the love and fortitude your spirit is truly made from my friend I love you

    Blessings and Love Always To You and Family ~ Gio


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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  lindabaker on Tue Jul 12, 2011 2:11 pm

    Carol, I will light a candle for your family's journey. I was visiting my own mother and father and didn't log in for quite a few days. However, I kept thinking about you, and now I know why. I'm sorry to hear the news. Linda
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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  Lionhawk on Tue Jul 12, 2011 2:23 pm

    What Gio said.

    You are surely loved Carol from many of us here.

    May I suggest that when you get home and can have a moment for yourself that you light up a campfire on the beach one evening.

    One giant hug.

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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  Mercuriel on Tue Jul 12, 2011 7:39 pm

    My Love to You Dear Sista...

    I can think of nothing more to say than Our Thoughts are with You and Yours in this trying time...



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    Re: A Love Boost For Carol And Her Mother...

    Post  Jenetta on Tue Jul 12, 2011 11:46 pm

    Your Mother must have a very large, expansive Spirit Carol as I felt her passing these last few days in my consciousness. Blessings to you...it is hardest on those left behind.


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    Post  ClearWater on Wed Jul 13, 2011 4:10 am

    Love to you and your family, Carol. Candle in the Wind
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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  Sanicle on Wed Jul 13, 2011 8:43 am

    Sorry it's taken a while to send my condolences also Carol. I'm afraid I did the sooky thing when I read that your Mum had passed......turned the computer off and had a good cry. But I also would like to add that the grace you've shown to your Mum in her time of need has been inspirational to me as well. I just hope I can be the same for my Mum as she's close to going with cancer also.

    Much love to you and your family dear friend Candle in the Wind JT


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    Re: A Love boost for Carol and her mother

    Post  HigherLove on Wed Jul 13, 2011 9:27 am

    I, too, am remiss in expressing my sympathies. It is times like these when I am reminded of the concreteness that we are all connected/we are ONE. We have not met in this life, but I cry when I think about you, just as I am at this moment. And I do not know what to say.

    You are loved, Carol.

    I am so very sorry for your loss.

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